Nicely said and well written. Hot jock guys may not appreciate us types that are not hardbodies live in gyms and could think we don’t deserve right to wear a speedo. Or it implied by out wLatestarter wrote:I agree Bullseye. Square cut is fine on muscular guys but I’m always conscious that the spare pounds hang over the higher waistband in a way they don’t in a skimpier suitBullseye wrote: ↑Sun May 06, 2018 9:36 pmCame across this article. https://medium.com/@brett.stephen.white ... 58b9c03969 I think even heavier set guys can look better in a smaller suit. Don;t you think this guy does?
Own perceived misguidings, or social pressures of “what others might think” but I totally agree with article. Swimwear briefs “Speedo” are functional and plus the added benefits of wearing them so why not. I am guilty myself, my good straight as an arrow friend that has his opinions on why your men like men, he found my 24/7 thongs once when we where camping and just met, and it came a storm and everything wet, and packing up. He found my bag and a thong. He immediate reaction is “your not gay are you” now back then I was Bi curious. Deep in the closet and said no, I am not. I gave him the story of my wife how I removed her undies and replaced them for thongs and she did it to me. I grew a custom and never gave it another thought. Well I took him to the gym as a guest to the pool. Yeah I wore dive loose shorts over my tight speedo. Ok, I am guilty... at least they are shorter Shorts with a dive flag on them. Yeah I was questioned once why I wore such short shorts... the gaul of people! I simple ask why do you wear such a ridiculous long shorts and falling off your ass!
So those who might read this, take the plunge and wear a brief and own it. I feel so alone at the pool being the only one but I don’t have to deal with restrictions stretching, my ball falling out through trough the leg holes, loosing my shorts getting out of the water, easy to rinse and use a suit extractor on.
One guy coed, the other night with his other girl friend/ wife she has a one piece, and he had long boxer briefs. Not even swimwear. But what the heck. Nice to see something besides dork shorts in the pool at the gym.
Another funny story, in the airline training I had to jump in a tank of water and climb into a life raft with a inflatable life vest. I wore my AussieBums ... hey hey. I got ridiculed a little. I said the flight attendants liked them at the last airline I flew for. That broke there smiles!!
Own it, enjoy it.... embrace it.
Tex
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