Things I wish I knew when I first started wearing speedos at 16. This is for anyone who feels anxiety, shame, or discomfort and needs inspiration to wear speedos in public.
1. Wearing speedos is not risque in anyway, its practical swim attire.
2. Never be ashamed for wearing speedos at a public pool, beach, water park, boating, etc. Shame never helps anyone it eats away at us and promotes self loathing.
3. If you're confident people most likely won't care what you are wearing and if they do then don't pay them any attention. Lets say you think you don't have the best body in the world, owning your body is the first step to being confident and comfortable in your own skin. When you are comfortable in your own skin then you radiate confident energy and people pick up on that on a subconscious level. People are often attracted to what you find unattractive about yourself.
4. Be your own butterfly. Be yourself don't let others talk you into wearing something you don't want to. Its okay to be different. Its okay to be the only guy at the pool party in a speedo!
Hope these tips help anyone who needs a little inspiration. Work on what's internal to manifest the external! - Cheers Frank!!
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Welcome to the Speedo Forum.
If you are a guest, you can only see a small portion of the forum. Members like posting their speedo selfies so I don't like that to be 100% public. However, joining is free.
If you are a new member, you need to email me your username so I can manually activate your account. This is a pain (for you and me) but it is the only way I've been able to keep the spam bots from ruining the forum. My email address is: DaveEvans@SpeedoFetish.com
This forum is free and I don't allow any advertising (except my own sites), if you would like to donate please click the link above, all donations go towards the hosting and maintenance of the forum for everyone to enjoy.
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Things I wish I knew when I started wearing speedos at 16
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Re: Things I wish I knew when I started wearing speedos at 1
Frank, that was great. It was deep & indightful. Thanks you so much!
Re: Things I wish I knew when I started wearing speedos at 1
All for you electric2010!!! I try my best to put positive energy out there into the world so that we can get closer to peace, love and joy. I believe happiness is a choice. :)
Re: Things I wish I knew when I started wearing speedos at 1
Hey Frankjath!
Well done! I found this post very positive and very real about what speedos are and what speedos are for!!
I fully prefer brief style and I would add "You can test square cut style to practice and feel comfortable with tiny swimsuit to begin with your comfort with it !!!"
Well done! I found this post very positive and very real about what speedos are and what speedos are for!!
I fully prefer brief style and I would add "You can test square cut style to practice and feel comfortable with tiny swimsuit to begin with your comfort with it !!!"
Re: Things I wish I knew when I started wearing speedos at 1
Yeah nice post!
I would add "you can have different styles for different occasions" for example I like to wear a conservative brief when i swim laps but if I am hanging out, I wear square cut or board shorts, and a more revealing suit if I am traveling somewhere with a pool or a beach :D
I would add "you can have different styles for different occasions" for example I like to wear a conservative brief when i swim laps but if I am hanging out, I wear square cut or board shorts, and a more revealing suit if I am traveling somewhere with a pool or a beach :D
sexy29_1 wrote:Hey Frankjath!
Well done! I found this post very positive and very real about what speedos are and what speedos are for!!
I fully prefer brief style and I would add "You can test square cut style to practice and feel comfortable with tiny swimsuit to begin with your comfort with it !!!"