Sexual Fantasy

[blueflinch]

Maybe just a roomful of hot guys checking each other out, as they change into and out of speedos? That's a start!

[speedostud]

Maybe just a roomful of hot guys checking each other out, as they change into and out of speedos? That's a start!

hot! definitely one of the reasons i swim! love when the changeroom or showers lead to something horny!

[blueflinch]

hot! definitely one of the reasons i swim! love when the changeroom or showers lead to something horny!

Real life change rooms have never led to anything horny for me. The most "action" that takes place is maybe a cute guy gives me a smile, or someone briefly stares at someone's body and then looks away, embarrassed. Only in my imagination do sexy locker room things happen - probably inspired by American porn!

[body2205]

hot! definitely one of the reasons i swim! love when the changeroom or showers lead to something horny!

Real life change rooms have never led to anything horny for me. The most "action" that takes place is maybe a cute guy gives me a smile, or someone briefly stares at someone's body and then looks away, embarrassed. Only in my imagination do sexy locker room things happen - probably inspired by American porn!

Oh you are missing out... I've enjoyed men looking and stroking themselves as I walk around naked, shower, and take a sauna or steam

[blueflinch]

Oh you are missing out... I've enjoyed men looking and stroking themselves as I walk around naked, shower, and take a sauna or steam

Well, there was this one incident where a man was in a shower cubicle, door ajar, and he seemed to be looking out occasionally, and I think he was discreetly jacking off - not to me necessarily, just in general. I wasn't interested in playing, though, as it was a fairly busy change room and the guy was solidly built - a bit intimidating, unfortunately.

[body2205]

Oh you are missing out... I've enjoyed men looking and stroking themselves as I walk around naked, shower, and take a sauna or steam

Well, there was this one incident where a man was in a shower cubicle, door ajar, and he seemed to be looking out occasionally, and I think he was discreetly jacking off - not to me necessarily, just in general. I wasn't interested in playing, though, as it was a fairly busy change room and the guy was solidly built - a bit intimidating, unfortunately.

When someone is watching you and stroking you'll know it, and in my case be very turned on

[blueflinch]

When someone is watching you and stroking you'll know it, and in my case be very turned on

Some guys jack off in public places, hoping that any random guy will join in. They're not that fussy.

But personal interest can be exciting and an aphrodisiac, yes.

[speedostud]

I love a good public jack off with a stranger. So much raw energy, some of the hottest times I've had have been in changerooms/showers/saunas.

[blueflinch]

I love a good public jack off with a stranger. So much raw energy, some of the hottest times I've had have been in changerooms/showers/saunas.

I'm too shy to participate I'm afraid. But once I was at a trough-style urinal in the city and a really good-looking young man in a business suit jacked himself off while I and another guy watched. It was really sexy - seeing his erection poking out of the fly of his really nice trousers. Maybe I have a suit fetish? I think some guys routinely went to that toilet and jerked off in their lunch hour. Of course, some guys do more, give and receive head, etc. I'm just really fascinated by the idea of a really well-dressed guy undressing ... Men are beautiful mysteries waiting to be unwrapped, layer by layer.

[speedostud]

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It was really sexy - seeing his erection poking out of the fly of his really nice trousers. Maybe I have a suit fetish?
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Love a man in a suit as well. Nothing better... except a speedo, of course.

[BJE]

I'm just really fascinated by the idea of a really well-dressed guy undressing ... Men are beautiful mysteries waiting to be unwrapped, layer by layer.

This turn in the conversation reminded me of a meme I made a few years ago.

[SEASPEEDO]

BJE, it looks like you're a prime example !

[blueflinch]

This turn in the conversation reminded me of a meme I made a few years ago.

That meme you made is so cool, BJE! Love it!

[landoffrozensheep]

pain play, primarily CBT, recently tied up, cock and balls sensitised with a sponge scourer and then chillis / capsaicin cream rubbed in
mix of stimulation and pain

[landoffrozensheep]

also outdoor submission to another guy(s), me just in a speedo at most and being used in various ways outdoors, ideally when the temp is below swimsuit weather

[BJE]

pain play, primarily CBT, recently tied up, cock and balls sensitised with a sponge scourer and then chillis / capsaicin cream rubbed in
mix of stimulation and pain

Wow! Another BDSM fan. I particularly like testicle pain while my penis and nipples are being stimulated. The combination of intense pleasure and intense pain is pretty overwhelming.

[Aircat]

I find cruisiness in changeroom and toilets to be extremely common. Like so long as it's not deserted someone is showing signs.

But the number of people who would actually do anything is low, because cops and STDs do exist and everyone is nervous that the signs are being misinterpreted.
Plus the step from a horny desire to actually doing something is big, especially when most people have a relationship commitment.
So it is mostly a game stopping short of actually doing anything.

It helps that I look gay, being shaved completely and not daggy dad clothes, bare pubes is a big sign that I'm no prude at least. Plus fit by social standards (it's a low bar these days) so guys know it's a pretty safe bet im not going to have a homophobic outburst if they are caught looking or flirting.

If someone looks straight or has a cop vibe or homophobic vibe then they are going to see a different act put on in their presence and not really aware of how common.

[landoffrozensheep]

pain play, primarily CBT, recently tied up, cock and balls sensitised with a sponge scourer and then chillis / capsaicin cream rubbed in
mix of stimulation and pain

Wow! Another BDSM fan. I particularly like testicle pain while my penis and nipples are being stimulated. The combination of intense pleasure and intense pain is pretty overwhelming.

Totally, the nerve stimulation combined with the burning from scotch bonnet peppers rubbed into abraded skin is heaven and hell, hated it at first when we tried it and swore never again, but the idea lurked in my head for a week and I asked / begged her to do it again, we also got some capsaicin cream from Thailand thats 1.346% capasaicin vs 0.025%/0.075% in most western countries.....whereas the peppers are an instant hellish burn, the cream builds up slowly and just keeps getting hotter and hotter and hotter

[BJE]

It helps that I look gay, being shaved completely and not daggy dad clothes, bare pubes is a big sign that I'm no prude at least. Plus fit by social standards (it's a low bar these days) so guys know it's a pretty safe bet im not going to have a homophobic outburst if they are caught looking or flirting.

I’m straight but I’m the only guy at my gym who wears a speedo plus I shave my pubes so I often wonder if guys think I’m gay. However there’s another older man who shaves too and I know he’s not gay so maybe nobody thinks anything if it.

[BJE]

pain play, primarily CBT, recently tied up, cock and balls sensitised with a sponge scourer and then chillis / capsaicin cream rubbed in
mix of stimulation and pain

Wow! Another BDSM fan. I particularly like testicle pain while my penis and nipples are being stimulated. The combination of intense pleasure and intense pain is pretty overwhelming.

Totally, the nerve stimulation combined with the burning from scotch bonnet peppers rubbed into abraded skin is heaven and hell, hated it at first when we tried it and swore never again, but the idea lurked in my head for a week and I asked / begged her to do it again, we also got some capsaicin cream from Thailand thats 1.346% capasaicin vs 0.025%/0.075% in most western countries.....whereas the peppers are an instant hellish burn, the cream builds up slowly and just keeps getting hotter and hotter and hotter

I’ve never tried the sack burning you describe. It sounds brutal. I used som capsaicin on my knees once and I thought the skin was going to peal off it burned so bad.

What I like is actual testicle pain. I like them squeezed, tugged on and sucked hard with a little biting. That while at the same time as I’m being sexually stimulated. I read they when testicle pain happens at the same time as sexual pleasure the brain gets confused and interprets the intense pain as intense pleasure. At any rate I wouldn’t have it done to me if it wasn’t intensely pleasurable. I especially like it when it’s done while I am tied spread eagle to the bed so I’m totally vulnerable with my legs spread wide and nothing I can do about it.