Anyone with a good gaydar I need you!

[Speedotommy]

I'm hopeless when it comes to telling who is straight and who is gay. Basically there's this really cute guy I see at the pool, and I'm tryna figure out whether I should make a move. He's average height, muscular, bit of facial hair (just enough, not too much) with a tattoo and an ear piercing. Whether he's into me or not, I'm falling for him, and having a hard time in my speedos

What should I do?

[lycramike34]

Tommy. Try and find a way to Break the Ice some how, As it appears from your small lower part pic, you to are Muscular, so maybe Ask ''what Gym he goes to', say you've just got from one nr by, and needed to Relax with a nice warm Swim. Or simply say you like the Tattoo. (even if you don't really)

A few ways to make Conversation.

[Speedeau]

A good start is to speak with him no? You might have a better sense of his orientation by interacting with him. Some you can tell right away, some you cannot. It is not always obvious. Depending of how you feel it, maybe you could invite him for a drink at one point? Depends how you feel about the situation. The worst that can happen is him telling you ‘no thanks’.

[Speedotommy]

Thanks guys We're both part of the same adult swimming lessons, so I have spoken to him a couple of times. He's really nice and we get on really well.

[Silkysmooth]

I'm with speedotommy, cute guy where I live and so afraid of approaching him. Got another guy at work that has commented on my sexy ass. I believe I could get him in front of me while I'm on my knees.