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Hi guys, first of all I want to apologize because english is not my native language, so I'll try to do my best.

The thing is that when I was a baby (2 yo) I had an accidente, so I have many scars from many surgeries.

So, would u be "scared" or "disgusted" by seeing/dating a guy wearing a speedo with some scars on his abs?

Don't be ashamed of being "too sincere"

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No, not many do, but that shouldn't discourage you from wearing what you want to wear. I don't wear my speedo for others to judge how I look, I wear a speedo because I like them and they make me happy.

shadowmn wrote: ↑

Sat Aug 28, 2021 4:46 am

No, not many do, but that shouldn't discourage you from wearing what you want to wear. I don't wear my speedo for others to judge how I look, I wear a speedo because I like them and they make me happy.

Well said!

shadowmn wrote:No, not many do, but that shouldn't discourage you from wearing what you want to wear. I don't wear my speedo for others to judge how I look, I wear a speedo because I like them and they make me happy.

Eloquently put. I have to many pairs to mention and I still would not wear them in front of other people. Scars are one thing people are very self conscious of. Even tho your scars were through any surgeries, I have scars through being over weight. These will never heal, fade; or disappear. But that is not my problem, my problem is not one you can see, but one that is in my head. Our own self worth, belief, and confidence. Look at Simon Weston the British soldier burnt in the Falkland War, he got over what happened to him, he got on with life, he adapted. Even tho our own problems are huge to us, compared to him they pale in comparison.


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shadowmn wrote: ↑

Sat Aug 28, 2021 4:46 am

No, not many do, but that shouldn't discourage you from wearing what you want to wear. I don't wear my speedo for others to judge how I look, I wear a speedo because I like them and they make me happy.

My thoughts exactly.

no, but I still think I look good in one, even with a bit of a spare tire

No you don't have to have a perfect body to wear Speedo's. People wouldn't agree on what a perfect body looks like anyway. Scars wouldn't bother me either.

There is absolutely nothing a man must do, possess, be or attain to "qualify" to wear swim briefs or thongs.
And ChicagoDan, you should be required to wear minimal swim gear!

I don’t have a perfect body either..I wear them as I like speedos, and don’t care what anyone thinks.

I had multiple surgeries too, I call them battle scars. I had cancer 6 years ago that scarred my body, but I’m healthy again now, and each scar has a story. It make each one of us unique, so just go and wear them with confidence!


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beachg0y wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 31, 2021 5:29 am

There is absolutely nothing a man must do, possess, be or attain to "qualify" to wear swim briefs or thongs.
And ChicagoDan, you should be required to wear minimal swim gear!

Thanks.

beachg0y wrote: ↑

Tue Aug 31, 2021 5:29 am

There is absolutely nothing a man must do, possess, be or attain to "qualify" to wear swim briefs or thongs.
And ChicagoDan, you should be required to wear minimal swim gear!

Thanks, beachbody. I usually wear speedo Solars at the beach with my wife and kids, square cuts at the public pools, not that I get to either very often. I I love wearing square but suits or running shorts around the house on a hot day.