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I'm just curious of how many of us have wives that are comfortable with you wearing a speedo in a public setting. I've had ups and down regarding my wife's tolerance of my speedo wearing. For the most part now, she accepts them only because she knows that she has lost the battle. She prefers squarecut suits much more, but would never say I can't wear my speedo.

Never had comments negative or positive, it is just what I wear to sun or swim and always has been.

Interesting poll Shadow. Think wives of speedo wearers maybe wonder why their husbands don’t hide their assets away like other guys do

Think mine sometimes wonders if I’m trying to turn the gay guys on

Mine wishes more guys wore speedos

Does she realise that most of them wouldnt carry it off like you Swimmy? I don’t really care what people think but I do hope she’d tell me if it got to the stage that I’m just being a silly old guy who is too blind to realise he’s past it

mine doesn't care but also doesn't want me to keep talking about it. She also thinks there is a time and a place or at least, a wrong time and place. On the flip side, she is also against me wearing any suits that have longer than 3-4" inseams. So I pretty much wear very short swim suits as the alternative.

My now ex-wife has never seen me in any swimsuit other than a Speedo-type brief. We met in 1981. It's just what I wore, continued to wear through our 35 year marriage, and continue to wear now that I've come out as gay and we divorced. And no, there's no connection between wearing a swim brief and being gay. It's just a swimsuit.

I responded "she hates them" to the poll question, because she would hate it if I wore them anywhere other than swimming laps at the gym, or if we are alone in our own back yard pool (the only place, to be fair, she will wear a bikini). So if there was a choice in the poll, "she tolerates them" I would have chosen that over hate. But not indifferent, and there is no love on per part for my speedos.

rmf wrote: ↑

Tue Apr 10, 2018 7:46 am

mine doesn't care but also doesn't want me to keep talking about it. She also thinks there is a time and a place or at least, a wrong time and place. On the flip side, she is also against me wearing any suits that have longer than 3-4" inseams. So I pretty much wear very short swim suits as the alternative.

With your body, bro, I would think wifey would be more than happy to see in your dick togs. You could be a swimwear model.

Then again, maybe she's worried all the other wifeys might notice Mr Hottie in his dick togs and come over for a chat. That might be a problem!

Latestarter wrote: ↑

Tue Apr 10, 2018 7:02 am

Think mine sometimes wonders if I’m trying to turn the gay guys on

Mate, with your body, it wouldn't just be the gay guys. I reckon even the most prim lady would take a peek!

Mitch wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 11, 2018 3:20 am

Nothing wrong with that. Remember gay guys give the best bj

Ugh... couldn't leave this poll/post clean could we Mitch.

Mitch wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 11, 2018 3:20 am

Nothing wrong with that. Remember gay guys give the best bj

Don’t think I’ll share that with her Mitch. Don’t think she would find it reassuring lol

My wife likes to see me in them, she's just wary about me in public, thinks they show too much. I can go in the yard and tan in them, though, if I want to.

rmf wrote: ↑

Tue Apr 10, 2018 7:46 am

mine doesn't care but also doesn't want me to keep talking about it. She also thinks there is a time and a place or at least, a wrong time and place. On the flip side, she is also against me wearing any suits that have longer than 3-4" inseams. So I pretty much wear very short swim suits as the alternative.

My wife is pretty much the same. I can wear a square cut to the beach, pool, water parks, but speedos are more for tanning, even in the yard.

Why the need to insult? We’re adults.


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I need to qualify my "she loves Speedos" answer by saying, just on me. She knows I am happier in them, and enjoys that. And she doesn't seem particularly interested in seeing other men in them. She'd let me know if she did; we are very open with each other about what gets our attention.

I thought mine was cool with my speedo collection until recently when she presented me with a ‘look what I bought you’ and handed me a square cut suit. Not as bad as board shorts, but certainly larger than my normal skinny sided suit...

Mitch wrote: ↑

Wed Apr 11, 2018 5:31 am

Shadowmn I don’t give a damn if your up set. Get over it. Or move on. I an several others think your just hiding behind this forum. No straight guy post a speedo bulge like that

How would you know if straight guys post bulges like that?? The point is that this poll was about wives being tolerant of speedos, not guys giving bjs. You have a tendency to always turn every post into some gay fantasy. It's rather annoying.

I bet some wives are against speedos but they don't mind wearing bikinis which show their bulges - nipples showing through and camel toes too not to mention butt cheeks hanging out of tiny bikini bottoms.