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Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2017 1:05 pm
by Speedo_King
Went home over thanksgiving wanted to go for a run. I forgot gym shorts, so I went to grab some from my brother's room. In his drawer, I found a HUGE collection of speedos. I never knew my brother had any interest in speedos. I swam all my life, but he never swims. Luckily we're the same size, so if I ever need to borrow a suit, my collection just doubled
In the same drawer, I also found a jockstrap, andrew christian briefs and even a butt plug. I guess my brother is into guys...
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Wed Nov 29, 2017 1:54 pm
by Norfcountryboy
Speedo_King wrote: ↑Wed Nov 29, 2017 1:05 pm
Went home over thanksgiving wanted to go for a run. I forgot gym shorts, so I went to grab some from my brother's room. In his drawer, I found a HUGE collection of speedos. I never knew my brother had any interest in speedos. I swam all my life, but he never swims. Luckily we're the same size, so if I ever need to borrow a suit, my collection just doubled
In the same drawer, I also found a jockstrap, andrew christian briefs and even a butt plug. I guess my brother is into guys...
Dunno if a love of Speedo's runs in families or not but the butt plug just proves he's into using his arse as an erogenous zone, doesn't automatically follow that he's into men [Although if he is he'd find lots willing to help him with his arse stimulation]. I've talked frankly with men who've said they're totally straight never even looked or thought of another man but they really love playing with their back door. I suspect that anal arousal is more common amongst men than homosexual urges but hey I haven't researched the figures!
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2017 9:30 pm
by Thom
Norfcountryboy wrote: ↑Wed Nov 29, 2017 1:54 pm
I suspect that anal arousal is more common amongst men than homosexual urges but hey I haven't researched the figures!
Well, every man has a prostate, so the potential is there.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2017 6:44 am
by ...:::sam:::...
Might be a bit ignorant here, but whats the point of a butt plug?
Butt no speedophilia in my family that I know about, butt my uncle, cousins and I do wear them.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2017 7:35 am
by Thom
...:::sam:::... wrote: ↑Fri Dec 01, 2017 6:44 am
Butt no speedophilia in my family that I know about, butt my uncle, cousins and I do wear them.
Adding "philia" and "phile" to a word just means you like or are attracted to what you've added it to.
Anyway, it sounds like the guys in your family have speedophilia and are speedophiles. You're lucky to live in Australia.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2017 2:28 pm
by blueflinch
...:::sam:::... wrote: ↑Fri Dec 01, 2017 6:44 am
Might be a bit ignorant here, but whats the point of a butt plug?
Butt no speedophilia in my family that I know about, butt my uncle, cousins and I do wear them.
Ah, Sam, mate, where have you been? Under a rock? Who doesn't know about butt plugs!
Nah, I'm just kidding. I'm not entirely what they're for either. I assume you stick it in your bum during sex and/or wanking and it's supposed to give you a slightly more intense orgasm.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2017 11:23 pm
by ...:::sam:::...
Good explanation, thanks Thom.
Bluefinch, I've been asked that a few times!
I wondered that, just jam it up your butt and then what, go to uni or work, feed the dogs or maybe just take some personal time to wack off. Then what, pull it out and wonder if it would still be cool to use it as a chess piece or suck it the wall as a door stop.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2017 1:17 pm
by blueflinch
...:::sam:::... wrote: ↑Fri Dec 01, 2017 11:23 pm
Good explanation, thanks Thom.
Bluefinch, I've been asked that a few times!
I wondered that, just jam it up your butt and then what, go to uni or work, feed the dogs or maybe just take some personal time to wack off. Then what, pull it out and wonder if it would still be cool to use it as a chess piece or suck it the wall as a door stop.
Now there's a marketing opportunity - the all-day, all-purpose butt plug.
Might smell a bit after a long day, but you could win a lot of chess games!
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2017 5:25 pm
by solarguy
So, Speedo_King, did you mention to your brother that you came across his speedo collection?
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Sun Dec 03, 2017 2:41 am
by diveguy
Yes, anal stimulation does NOT necessarily mean that the recipient is attracted to other men. It's something that straight men can also engage in with their female partners, or even just do alone. Yes, the aim is to stimulate the prostrate, which, as you may know if you've had a digital prostrate exam performed by your doctor, is accessed via the butt. Funny how the prostrate exam doesn't turn guys on but stimulating it on purpose with a butt plug does. A prostrate based orgasm is supposed to be mind blowing, and I guess like everything else sexual, it's all in the mind.
Something I think would really rock is to give a girl a long, sensual massage with scented oils while wearing a butt plug, as the first course to a long, satisfying sexual evening.
And yes, did you tell your brother you found his speedo collection, and if not, why not? If he's not really a swimmer and he has a drawer full of speedos, then for damn sure he's a speedo-o-phile, and now you both have something in common!
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:53 pm
by Speedo_King
Talked to my brother about it. It was an awkward conversation at first but as he opened up about it, it was funny. He said he was always into speedos and used to steal my speedos back when I was in high school. It’s cool to find out that you’re not the only person into something like speedos.
I don’t usually talk about my sex life with my brother, but it was funny to hear his experience finding people into speedos. He said he still doesn’t really swim but he used to hook up with a water polo player in college who gave him one of his speedos. He confided in me that he’s gay, which I’m really proud of him for. I’m bi myself, and I offered to take him to a gay bar sometime to wing man him.
We also had a good laugh about taking speedos to our future family vacations. We’re not normally comfortable wearing speedos around family, but hey, If we both do it, it’s a movement.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Sun Dec 10, 2017 6:15 pm
by Scottiebum
Speedo King, that sounds like a really positive conversation!
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2017 2:15 am
by diveguy
A real sibling bonding moment!
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2017 7:04 am
by VPL
I truly hope that when you and your brother both go for a swim in your speedos you will share a pic of you two with us all!
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2017 8:40 am
by Thom
diveguy wrote: ↑Sun Dec 03, 2017 2:41 am
A prostrate based orgasm is supposed to be mind blowing, and I guess like everything else sexual, it's all in the mind.
I've achieved this a few times. I found that I have to be very relaxed and focused. The first time I did it, it was so powerful it left me stunned, literally.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Mon Dec 11, 2017 9:04 am
by swimmerbud
I too have wondered who of my friends are still 'speedo shy' or 'in the speedo closet.' Pretty much all friends and family know I'm not afraid to wear them so I figure if they're interested or have questions they'd let me know. Glad to hear your convo went well and that you're both more open with each other.
Speedos: the gateway to brotherhood!
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2017 2:45 pm
by blueflinch
I'm the only speedo-wearer in my family, but I don't have any brothers. Don't know what my male cousins wear ...
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2017 3:56 pm
by Speedoaddict
Speedo_King wrote: ↑Sun Dec 10, 2017 2:53 pm
Talked to my brother about it. It was an awkward conversation at first but as he opened up about it, it was funny. He said he was always into speedos and used to steal my speedos back when I was in high school. It’s cool to find out that you’re not the only person into something like speedos.
I don’t usually talk about my sex life with my brother, but it was funny to hear his experience finding people into speedos. He said he still doesn’t really swim but he used to hook up with a water polo player in college who gave him one of his speedos. He confided in me that he’s gay, which I’m really proud of him for. I’m bi myself, and I offered to take him to a gay bar sometime to wing man him.
We also had a good laugh about taking speedos to our future family vacations. We’re not normally comfortable wearing speedos around family, but hey, If we both do it, it’s a movement.
I have 2 sisters and your story above is one of the reason I wished I had a brother.
It is great to read you and your brother are close enough to talk about something like this.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2017 5:11 pm
by swimsharkau
One of my cousins and one of my uncles wear speedos. They've never worn anything else. Both have always been into ocean swimming, they swim in winter too which I think is mad.
I've decided that this summer I should be wearing speedos every time I'm swimming with them.
Re: Does Speedo-philia run in the family?
Posted: Sat Dec 16, 2017 4:33 pm
by VPL
swimsharkau wrote: ↑Thu Dec 14, 2017 5:11 pm
One of my cousins and one of my uncles wear speedos. They've never worn anything else. Both have always been into ocean swimming, they swim in winter too which I think is mad.
I've decided that this summer I should be wearing speedos every time I'm swimming with them.
swimsharkau, with a bangin' hot bod like yours, you absolutely must join them in a speedo!