Thank you, TS. A most tempting offer! Would speedo-wearing be compulsory?Texas_swimmer wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 9:48 amLol you guys want some texas hospitality?
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Thank you, TS. A most tempting offer! Would speedo-wearing be compulsory?Texas_swimmer wrote: ↑Mon Aug 12, 2019 9:48 amLol you guys want some texas hospitality?
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Fuck.
Well if you’re not in good enough shape for them, I don’t know who would be to satisfy his definition of “really good shape.” That’s just unfortunate and to me it sounds like he might be insecure with his own body. Does he wear anything fitted or revealing like skinny jeans, tight shirts?Texas_swimmer wrote:Looks like he was not joking. He doesnt like them at all unless the person wearing them is in really good shape. Also he said he wants his men to look and dress like men. I told him I like wearing them bc they feel good, I like the tan. I told him I see women wearing suits that they shouldn't and I'm not feminine for wearing brief swimsuits.
He also joked he would burn my swimsuits if he found them. I've never met a gay person who absolutely hates a swimsuit.
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No he wears regular fitting clothes like polos and shorts or regular pants. His choice in underwear is boring too. He wears boxer briefs and nothing else.chicagoswim wrote:Well if you’re not in good enough shape for them, I don’t know who would be to satisfy his definition of “really good shape.” That’s just unfortunate and to me it sounds like he might be insecure with his own body. Does he wear anything fitted or revealing like skinny jeans, tight shirts?Texas_swimmer wrote:Looks like he was not joking. He doesnt like them at all unless the person wearing them is in really good shape. Also he said he wants his men to look and dress like men. I told him I like wearing them bc they feel good, I like the tan. I told him I see women wearing suits that they shouldn't and I'm not feminine for wearing brief swimsuits.
He also joked he would burn my swimsuits if he found them. I've never met a gay person who absolutely hates a swimsuit.
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So why are you wasting your time with him? Look at how much it seems you will have to give up because of him. It looks like you are settling.Texas_swimmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 15, 2019 11:11 amNo he wears regular fitting clothes like polos and shorts or regular pants. His choice in underwear is boring too. He wears boxer briefs and nothing else.chicagoswim wrote:Well if you’re not in good enough shape for them, I don’t know who would be to satisfy his definition of “really good shape.” That’s just unfortunate and to me it sounds like he might be insecure with his own body. Does he wear anything fitted or revealing like skinny jeans, tight shirts?Texas_swimmer wrote:Looks like he was not joking. He doesnt like them at all unless the person wearing them is in really good shape. Also he said he wants his men to look and dress like men. I told him I like wearing them bc they feel good, I like the tan. I told him I see women wearing suits that they shouldn't and I'm not feminine for wearing brief swimsuits.
He also joked he would burn my swimsuits if he found them. I've never met a gay person who absolutely hates a swimsuit.
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I don't think he's the right guy for you, bro.Texas_swimmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 15, 2019 11:11 amNo he wears regular fitting clothes like polos and shorts or regular pants. His choice in underwear is boring too. He wears boxer briefs and nothing else.chicagoswim wrote:Well if you’re not in good enough shape for them, I don’t know who would be to satisfy his definition of “really good shape.” That’s just unfortunate and to me it sounds like he might be insecure with his own body. Does he wear anything fitted or revealing like skinny jeans, tight shirts?Texas_swimmer wrote:Looks like he was not joking. He doesnt like them at all unless the person wearing them is in really good shape. Also he said he wants his men to look and dress like men. I told him I like wearing them bc they feel good, I like the tan. I told him I see women wearing suits that they shouldn't and I'm not feminine for wearing brief swimsuits.
He also joked he would burn my swimsuits if he found them. I've never met a gay person who absolutely hates a swimsuit.
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Please dump him. As far as I'm concerned, you look nice in swim briefs. If I was to go to Texas, I'd love to have some innocent fun with you and go to the pool or beaches wearing swim briefs.Texas_swimmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 15, 2019 6:29 amLooks like he was not joking. He doesnt like them at all unless the person wearing them is in really good shape. Also he said he wants his men to look and dress like men. I told him I like wearing them bc they feel good, I like the tan. I told him I see women wearing suits that they shouldn't and I'm not feminine for wearing brief swimsuits.
He also joked he would burn my swimsuits if he found them. I've never met a gay person who absolutely hates a swimsuit.
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Is there any news regarding your better half warming to the idea of a speedo and moving away from dork shorts?Texas_swimmer wrote:Hey guys seems like a guy I'm seeing isn't into speedos at all. He said he wouldn't wear one. Which is a shame because I think he would look sexy in one. He mentioned he wont be around if I wear one. I'm sure he was joking but it's hard to tell over a text. Anyone experience this?
I'm bummed out but maybe I can convince him to change his attitude towards them.
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I don't think he's the right one for anybody.VPL wrote: ↑Thu Aug 15, 2019 2:04 pmI don't think he's the right guy for you, bro.Texas_swimmer wrote: ↑Thu Aug 15, 2019 11:11 amNo he wears regular fitting clothes like polos and shorts or regular pants. His choice in underwear is boring too. He wears boxer briefs and nothing else.chicagoswim wrote: Well if you’re not in good enough shape for them, I don’t know who would be to satisfy his definition of “really good shape.” That’s just unfortunate and to me it sounds like he might be insecure with his own body. Does he wear anything fitted or revealing like skinny jeans, tight shirts?
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I'm no Don Juan and sadly I'm still single and available. But I have been in a few relationships (straight) and I'm sorry to say this - I think you're in denial. Dump him.Texas_swimmer wrote: ↑Wed Aug 21, 2019 6:44 amEh I'm not worried about it honestly. I think he just wanted to joke. He just hasn't been around it much lol
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The main thing is this 1) are you both happy? 2) do you love him and does he love you? 3) does it really matter? 4) if you refused to wear board shorts would he dump you? 5) has he got a huge ?Texas_swimmer wrote:Eh I'm not worried about it honestly. I think he just wanted to joke. He just hasn't been around it much lol
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