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by rmf » Mon Nov 09, 2015 12:47 pm
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Briefsbro - I know exactly what your are going through since the same sort of thing happen to me.
When I decided to get back into swimming, I went to a gym that I can best describe as an 80's style country club. It is a huge complex with lots of different areas and activities without the stuffiness of a 'country' club. I'm sure at the time it was all the rage with their racquet ball courts being the main attraction along with their multiple temperature pools (in fact, judging from the mauve color wallpaper in parts of the building, it hasn't changed much since the 80's). It's also place where there are all types of people, families and also a lot of athletes train there during the cold winter months. One of the pools is specifically designated for laps only. During my initial tour of the gym, I only saw guys in shorts in the open swimming pools with their kids and only one older woman who was in the lap pool swimming laps. My first day at the gym after signing up, I found myself staring into my gym bag trying to decide what to wear. I had a pair of jammers, square cut and speedos. I decided to play it in the middle and I grab my sq cut suit. From a gym & swimming perspective, I thought it was safe and easy... and it was because I was only person there except for one other guy who came later in a pair of jammers.
For the next week, I wore the square cut suit and for the most part, I saw 1/2 the guys in shorts and the rest in some type of spandex. Of the spandex, it was pretty equally split between Jammers, sq cut and maybe a few, speedos. By the end of the week, I was pretty comfortable and realized that no one was paying attention, looking, staring or for that fact cared to what I was wearing. By the second week, I moved to wearing my speedo solar 1". The pool & hot tub has a 14+ age restriction but I never saw anyone young there (to make me second guess even for a split second) so it wasn't a big deal to walk out in speedos.
The hot tub next to the pool is popular with a lot of people so I probably got a few looks but I never noticed. I was definitely not in the majority by wearing speedos but I also didn't stand out as being odd. In fact, I noticed one guy who had worn shorts a few times I saw him in the beginning, make the switch over to speedos but his tan line showed he was not new to wearing them.... maybe he just didn't wear them to swim laps at this pool.
So fast forward to today, I'm now at a newly built national franchise gym. The pool at my old gym was just too old and dirty (pool water) for my liking. The new gym has the typical minimum age restriction which I think some people like (but my little kids hate). Overall, it is a very much younger crowd. My first day there I wore speedos without even thinking twice. To my surprise (and comfort), 99% of the guys who are there to swim laps, are wearing some type of spandex and 70% are wearing speedos (both young and old guys). The rest are either in jammers or square cut suits. It is mind boggling to see how many guys are wearing speedos but not surprising. I think this gym has a lot more serious swimmers, triathletes or post swimmers. It's the uniform of choice for anyone who has even a little bit of exposure to swimming.
I also have seen quite a few guys & girls wear their college branded swimsuits or swim caps. Occasionally you will see a guy wearing board shorts in the lap pool but it is rare (I see it more often in the hot tub right next to the pool from guys who come in from their weightlifting to soak in the hot water). There has never been a moment where I felt uncomfortable, heard a negative comment or even had an odd look from anyone there, even in the locker room. It's great.
So the funny thing is that I tend to wear my suit low on my hips and when I jump out of the water on the shallow end, I am facing everyone who is sitting in the hot tub. All eyes on me right? My routine is to get out of the pool and walk over to a shelf to put back the swim pull buoy and paddle board I use during swimming. I have to walk right by the edge of the hot tub because the shelf is tucked back into the corner. On occasion, I've caught a few eyes staring up at me. However, when I mention this to my better half one day she quickly responded by saying (and joyfully bursting my bubble) they probably are NOT staring at my suit, body or [snicker] handsomely good looks but instead, staring at my weird waterproof MP3 player (Finis Neptune) that are on my head attached to my swim goggles. And alas, she is probably right. I do look like a dork wearing them but honestly, it is my saving grace. I wouldn't be able to swim as long and often as I do without some sort of distraction.
So Briefbro - long story even longer: I recommend you just put on your favorite Speedos, keep it modest (ie: no cocksox type) and enjoy your swim and you will be fine!
Last note, anyone thinking of getting into swimming for exercise, I highly recommend it. At any skill level, it is one of the best low impact sports you can do. If you want to swim laps but are board easily, get yourself a waterproof MP3 player. It was the best advice an avid swimming buddy gave me and it seriously was a game changer for me regarding my swim workouts.
straight, married w/ kids.