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Hi, I am new on this forum. So I want to introduce myself.

I am a 41 years old man from The Netherlands and I always liked it to wear a Speedo when I go swimming. I have tried those wide surfshorts, but I don't like them because they are to wide, big and not sexy. I have to admit that since I was a child, I am in doubt about my body. I don't have an athletic body, but I am just normal (maybe a few grams to much). So, I notice that sometimes people are looking strange at me when I am wearing a Speedo. I also notice that in The Netherlands lots of people make stupid remarks if a man is wearing a Speedo (also people who I know). These two points make me in doubt about wearing a Speedo.

Since a while I have noticed that I have a fetish for people in tight and shiny clothes, especially swimwear. So women in swimsuits and sexy bikinis get my full attention. And since I always was thinking that I am straith, I noticed that even man in a Speedo can turn me on. So what am I, straight or bi-sexual? For me the Speedo is comparable with a bikini for women. So, you are warned: I gonna watch all your Speedo pictures on this forum. :-)

When I am in holiday I feel the most confident to wear a Speedo, because how big is that chance to meet someone who knows you. And when I am on the beach or at the pool, it even happens that the bulge in my Speedo becomes bigger (and harder). I have to admit that I like that feeling. Do more of you guys have that and like that?

Currently I do not have a big collection of Speedos. Just one for swimming, but I am thinking about wearing more often a Speedo at home and buying some more sexy Speedos.

Now you know more about me. If you have any questions, feel free to ask them.

Welcome to the huge party!

Welcome to the group. You should definitely get more speedo's to wear. They are so comfortable. Please enjoy all of our pictures!

Hello and welcome. I am a straight male who loves speedos. I too have a fetish for swimsuits. I completely love beautiful women and for me, skimpy bikinis on gorgeous females are the number one turn on. But I also love sleek tight one-piece swimsuits on the gals too. It is so yummy. But I also like speedos very much and like seeing them on good looking men. But I am not interested in the men themselves, just the speedos and how good they look on those men, and how I love wearing speedos too and how much I would love to be in the place of those good looking men in their speedos. I have in the past looked inwardly to see if I have any interest at all in the men themselves and the answer is no. Here are a few tests to help you confirm whether you are Bi or not:

1. Are you attracted to the men when they are not wearing speedos? Like when they are wearing those long baggy surf shorts that we all here hate so much. Or even shirtless in just a pair of jeans. Do you focus on the men's faces and find yourself attracted? How about their muscular physiques? If you answer "yes", or even just "yes, sometimes", then maybe you are indeed Bi. Which is fine. It's not a criticism, it just is what it is.

2. Do you ever visualize or fantasize or even have dreams of being romantic with another man? Or when you think about sex, is the object of your fantasy always a woman? Looking inwardly and answering these questions honestly will help you realize where you fall on the sexual orientation spectrum. For me, it's always women. Always. Whenever I fantasize (and also happily in real life situations) it's always me in a speedo with a gorgeous female in a very skimpy bikini. Of course, in my fantasies, I am much more muscular and better looking than I am in real life, and the women I'm with are hotter than most I've ever had relationships with, but that's another story entirely.

The point is, whether you are gay or straight or somewhere in between, just be true to yourself and enjoy life and especially enjoy your love of speedos and swimsuits, and welcome aboard! Everyone here is understanding and accommodating and we all love speedos for our own individual reasons and we welcome everyone who loves speedos too.

DutchSpeedoLover wrote: When I am in holiday I feel the most confident to wear a Speedo, because how big is that chance to meet someone who knows you.

I feel the same way. Being on holiday (or vacation as we call it in the US) in a distant location is an excellent and easy opportunity to throw off inhibitions and comfortably strip down to and wear your speedo.

DutchSpeedoLover wrote:And when I am on the beach or at the pool, it even happens that the bulge in my Speedo becomes bigger (and harder). I have to admit that I like that feeling. Do more of you guys have that and like that?

We all experience that. And enjoy it. Just one more reason why wearing speedos is so much more fun.

@diveguy, thank you for your tedious reaction.

diveguy wrote:1. Are you attracted to the men when they are not wearing speedos? Like when they are wearing those long baggy surf shorts that we all here hate so much. Or even shirtless in just a pair of jeans. Do you focus on the men's faces and find yourself attracted? How about their muscular physiques? If you answer "yes", or even just "yes, sometimes", then maybe you are indeed Bi. Which is fine. It's not a criticism, it just is what it is.

When I see men in Speedos, my attention goes most of the time to the Speedo and it contents. The most I am attracted to the bulge. How does it look like? Is it big? Does he have a hard on?

diveguy wrote:2. Do you ever visualize or fantasize or even have dreams of being romantic with another man? Or when you think about sex, is the object of your fantasy always a woman? Looking inwardly and answering these questions honestly will help you realize where you fall on the sexual orientation spectrum. For me, it's always women. Always. Whenever I fantasize (and also happily in real life situations) it's always me in a speedo with a gorgeous female in a very skimpy bikini. Of course, in my fantasies, I am much more muscular and better looking than I am in real life, and the women I'm with are hotter than most I've ever had relationships with, but that's another story entirely.

In relationships I am interrested in women. But when I see men in Speedos, I notice that I frequently get a hard on. And it can happen that I have some fantasies about how it would be to to touch his bulge and if I would like it if he would touch my bulge.

So, I think that I am more bi-curious then straight. For me that is not a problem, but it is only difficult to find someone with the same feelings. Someone with who I could talk about it and maybe could try to have some sexual "experminents" with. Of course it should be a Speedo guy.